Hey everyone,
This week I am guest posting for The Youth Culture Report about what guys need to know about sexuality. Today’s post is on what every guy is desperate for. If you get this thing right you can set a boy on the path to self-confidence, inspire a man forward or save your marriage. Here’s an excerpt of my article:
As guys, we want our lives to matter. We want to be significant. And, this is the way we approach relationships. When it comes to a relationship, we want respect.
What is respect? We want the woman we love to be proud of us. We want to be considered worthy of her loyalty and love. It’s really that simple. If you think about it, that’s all we want out of life. We wanted our dads to be proud of us. We wanted our teachers and coaches to be proud of us and we want our girlfriends and wives to be proud of us.
If you are a woman, understand this: If you show your man that you respect him on a regular basis, it will revolutionize your relationship. All men have a little boy inside of them that just wants someone to be proud of them. Most of what we do is designed to make you proud. As childish as it sounds, the more you think of us like a little boy who needs a pat on the head and a proud smile, the better. Praise us, make a big deal about the things we do and we will put on that little boy grin and love you with fierce loyalty.
I’d love your feedback on the rest of the article. You can read it here: